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What's Fair Got to Do with It?

Jeremy Didier

Nurturing Neurotypical Siblings in the ADHD Home - Foster Family Dynamics


Parenting a child with ADHD comes with unique challenges, and as many families know, those challenges don't just affect the child with ADHD—they impact the entire family system, especially siblings. The sibling relationship is one of the most intense and long-lasting bonds in a person’s life. It serves as a foundation for social development, emotional growth, and lifelong connection. However, in families navigating ADHD, the needs of neurotypical siblings can sometimes be overshadowed by the demands of supporting their neurodiverse sibling.


At our January 2024 ADHDKC Parent Event, we had the privilege of hosting a dynamic conversation with Jeremy Didier, LMSW, LMAC, PCAC, and Jane Indergaard, DPN, RN. This nationally recognized duo has traveled across the U.S., speaking on a variety of ADHD-related topics, always leaving their audiences informed and empowered. Now, you can watch their insightful talk and discover why their expertise is so widely acclaimed.


Understanding the Family Dynamic

Experts in family psychology and development emphasize the critical role of sibling relationships in shaping personal growth. When ADHD is part of the household dynamic, the well-documented challenges—such as emotional dysregulation, executive function struggles, and disruptions to routines—create a ripple effect on the entire family. Neurotypical siblings often experience a mix of emotions, from love and protectiveness to frustration and resentment. Without adequate support, they may feel overlooked or burdened by the additional responsibilities that can come with having a neurodiverse sibling.


Finding Balance: Addressing the Needs of All Children

Parents naturally devote significant time and energy to meeting the needs of their child with ADHD, often navigating therapies, school accommodations, and daily emotional regulation strategies. However, it is just as important to ensure that neurotypical siblings feel seen, heard, and supported in their experiences.


Jeremy Didier and Jane Indergaard explore practical strategies for:

✔️ Acknowledging and validating the emotions of neurotypical siblings.

✔️ Creating open and honest family communication.

✔️ Encouraging positive sibling relationships while setting realistic expectations.

✔️ Implementing family routines that foster inclusivity and balance.

✔️ Ensuring parents have the support they need to sustain the whole family’s well-being.


Watch the Full Discussion

If you missed this event or want to revisit the discussion, we’ve got you covered! Watch the recorded talk below and gain valuable insights on how to support your neurotypical child(ren) while meeting the needs of your neurodiverse child(ren) and the family as a whole.


Parenting in a neurodiverse household is a journey filled with learning and adaptation. By recognizing the needs of every family member, you can foster a more harmonious home environment where all children feel valued and supported.



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